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by octarineoboe
Thu Jun 22, 15:53 2017
Forum: Hell
Topic: Unsolicited relationship advice
Replies: 48
Views: 494

Re: Unsolicited relationship advice

Many of scenarios Ive heard and read about, the male is sure that isn't the issue. They could very well be wrong. In most cases they've tried to communicate and that wasnt in the womans response. Usually men can be respectful of actual health needs LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL men don't get to define what women...
by octarineoboe
Wed Jun 21, 20:04 2017
Forum: Careers & Education
Topic: What career should you have?
Replies: 5
Views: 47

Re: What career should you have?

it tells me to be a psychologist, or educator. But both of those would require more school, which I don't want to pursue at the moment.
by octarineoboe
Mon Jun 19, 12:44 2017
Forum: Random
Topic: what do you dislike about children?
Replies: 12
Views: 85

Re: what do you dislike about children?

They're so LOUD! And they just take a lot of attention, and I don't really know how to talk to them.
My friend recently referred to her daughter (almost 2) as a "chaos monster" and ...yeah, that's pretty much what I don't like about kids: they're chaos. I like them only in small doses.
by octarineoboe
Sun Jun 18, 19:37 2017
Forum: Random
Topic: what's your favorite thing that is purple?
Replies: 4
Views: 56

Re: what's your favorite thing that is purple?

My hair! i have a purple and blue bottom layer right now and i love it very much.
by octarineoboe
Sun Jun 11, 10:27 2017
Forum: Hell
Topic: inept guilt-tripping
Replies: 5
Views: 149

Re: inept guilt-tripping

unfortunately, i can't have the dog at my current home, which ties my hands a bit. But yeah, if I was willing to engage at all - which I'm not, and I'm especially not now because it will seem like the repeated contact wore me down, which is NOT a message I want to send - that would be the route I'd ...
by octarineoboe
Sat Jun 10, 19:01 2017
Forum: Mixed Media
Topic: what are you reading?
Replies: 151
Views: 45614

Re: what are you reading?

I recently read Obelisk Gate (and had read The Fifth Season several months before that). Seconding lilly's comment: SO GOOD. Personally I liked it much better than the 100K kingdoms, too. Currently re-reading Outlander, because it's fun and lighthearted and sexy, and I am very slowly reading All the...
by octarineoboe
Fri Jun 9, 6:56 2017
Forum: Hell
Topic: inept guilt-tripping
Replies: 5
Views: 149

Re: inept guilt-tripping

It's the dumbest damn thing, and I'm baffled that she thinks I should care about its "sentimental value" to her when she was totally on board for having me sign a contract giving up custody rights to the dog. (I did not sign, but for a variety of reasons my ex wound up keeping the dog anyw...
by octarineoboe
Thu Jun 8, 18:47 2017
Forum: Hell
Topic: inept guilt-tripping
Replies: 5
Views: 149

inept guilt-tripping

HELLO FREMBS i am DRUNK and hell is EMPTY and my ex-never-quite-MIL is trying very clumsily to guilt-trip me over an ugly nightstand, my life has become a goddamn farce, that is all
by octarineoboe
Wed Jun 7, 15:39 2017
Forum: Ranting
Topic: My husband left me
Replies: 16
Views: 451

Re: My husband left me

Oh lillerina I am so, so very sorry. I am also a few months out from a major breakup and i am in 800% agreement that men are the worst. I wish I had something more substantive to say but, yeah, it just sucks so much, and fuck him, and I'm sorry and I'm sending all the virtual spacefemmer love I can ...
by octarineoboe
Tue Jun 6, 16:06 2017
Forum: Random
Topic: Popcorn time
Replies: 17
Views: 421

Re: Popcorn time

oh I unpacked all my books yesterday! It feels like I live here now!
by octarineoboe
Mon Jun 5, 14:47 2017
Forum: Random
Topic: Blue Foods?
Replies: 15
Views: 327

Re: Blue Foods?

Blue corn chips!
I've eaten blue Gatorade and blue icing. Of course neither of those is naturally blue, but they were blue when I ate them! Blue raspberry-flavored candies and Popsicles, too.
by octarineoboe
Sun Jun 4, 9:28 2017
Forum: Random
Topic: Popcorn time
Replies: 17
Views: 421

Re: Popcorn time

but if you were eating your favorite kind of popcorn and it made you happy, that would qualify!
by octarineoboe
Mon May 29, 15:05 2017
Forum: Random
Topic: Happy 5th spacefemmiversary octarineoboe!
Replies: 6
Views: 317

Re: Happy 5th spacefemmiversary octarineoboe!

aww thanks friends! I totally forgot about my own spacefemmiversary!

Sonic that kitten is TOO CUTE.
by octarineoboe
Sat May 27, 11:53 2017
Forum: Random
Topic: What the worst performance you ever saw?
Replies: 6
Views: 333

Re: What the worst performance you ever saw?

The musical theater group at my college always did a midnight show, usually while drunk. For some reason I went to the midnight show of their production of Rent. It was exactly as bad as you would expect.
by octarineoboe
Sat May 20, 16:33 2017
Forum: Polls
Topic: What's your favorite color?
Replies: 8
Views: 371

Re: What's your favorite color?

They're all amazing but STANKY BEAN especially makes me giggle every time.
by octarineoboe
Thu May 4, 18:44 2017
Forum: Polls
Topic: Clean Energy meets Artificial Intelligence
Replies: 6
Views: 646

Re: Clean Energy meets Artificial Intelligence

Idk, but I get to see my sister's youngest baby for the first time next week! So I hope spacebot doesn't eat her before then.
by octarineoboe
Wed May 3, 7:15 2017
Forum: Random
Topic: Have you performed on a stage?
Replies: 11
Views: 626

Re: Have you performed on a stage?

Yes, many times. Mostly music but occasionally theater or dance too.
by octarineoboe
Sun Apr 30, 17:51 2017
Forum: Random
Topic: Shampoo/Conditioner
Replies: 8
Views: 471

Re: Shampoo/Conditioner

She's wrong. I mean maybe she has wavy hair that she straightens, or has the frizz that usually goes along with curls and so she finds the curly shampoo works for her, but shampoo for curly hair is definitely not going to give you curls. That's what curling irons are for.
by octarineoboe
Sat Apr 29, 9:58 2017
Forum: Random
Topic: When do you feel awkward?
Replies: 4
Views: 352

Re: When do you feel awkward?

right now, because my roommate's parents are coming over soon and they are rushing around getting ready i guess and I'm like "uh it's saturday i just want to wake up watching dumb tv and drinking coffee."
But in general - in new social situations, mostly.
by octarineoboe
Wed Apr 26, 18:36 2017
Forum: Random
Topic: hello
Replies: 7
Views: 340

Re: hello

Me too, Enigma!
by octarineoboe
Tue Apr 25, 19:40 2017
Forum: Polls
Topic: When do you seek medical attention?
Replies: 11
Views: 612

Re: When do you seek medical attention?

oh melsbells. I can tell you are not in the US because none of these answers are "when i can afford it" :nervous:
by octarineoboe
Mon Apr 24, 16:46 2017
Forum: Random
Topic: what was wrong with your ex-lover?
Replies: 9
Views: 436

Re: what was wrong with your ex-lover?

well, the main thing was that he lied to me and didn't seem interested in respecting the boundaries I tried to establish as a first step to rebuilding my trust. It was also a pretty big deal to me that he wanted to sleep with other women (not to rag on polyamory generally but it is not for me and he...
by octarineoboe
Wed Mar 22, 13:00 2017
Forum: Random
Topic: have you done yoga?
Replies: 8
Views: 435

Re: have you done yoga?

Yes. There's a free weekly class here and I am trying to make it a habit. I've been maybe six or seven times and all but one felt great, I just have to work on getting myself up and out of the house on Saturday mornings. And not letting it be an excuse to be lazy the rest of the day, too!
by octarineoboe
Mon Mar 20, 18:11 2017
Forum: Random
Topic: How do you pass time at boring parties?
Replies: 22
Views: 1175

Re: How do you pass time at boring parties?

alcohol and pets, usually. I try not to go to parties I think will be boring, but I've also found that many parties which start out boring wind up being really fun - including my housemates' party last weekend, which would've been difficult to leave because 1. I live here and 2. the aforementioned a...
by octarineoboe
Tue Feb 28, 21:20 2017
Forum: Polls
Topic: avatar vote
Replies: 14
Views: 1213

Re: avatar vote

I hate change and I often recognize people by their avatar, so I voted for the original sun! BUT if you must change, I like the galaxy best of the new ones.

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