So much to bitch about... forgive me

[hannahrae]

My husband keeps yelling at me because I never "clean" and I don't "act like a wife" wtf does that even mean? I know I keep a fairly messy house but c'mon.

My mother keeps yelling at me when she finds out I ate Chinese and fried chicken in the same week. Apparently I'm supposed to be some frail little flower that eats lettuce for breakfast lunch and dinner.

Almost all my customers at work think that because I work at a restaurant I must be mentally challenged and therefore speak to me as if I don't know how to make a sandwich. If you say you need two subs, you don't need to hold up to fingers and point to them, depicting the number "2" for me.

I quit smoking two weeks ago and I've been so emotional I took a week off work, ate a lot of ice cream, yelled at everyone and cried a lot.

[octarineoboe]

*hugs*

Chinese food is delicious, and sometimes even has vegetables in it, so you should feel free to eat as much of it as you want. Maybe if your mother discovers how delicious it is she will eat it with you instead of yelling at you.

And you don't have to ask forgiveness for bitching - that's what this forum is for!

[Storage and Disposal]

All that sounds like it sucks, especially while trying to quit. Also, you may have accidentally married a misogynist.

Chinese food is delicious, and sometimes even has vegetables in it, so you should feel free to eat as much of it as you want.

Most of that stuff is horrible for you, assuming you're eating at Chinese buffets similar to the ones I've been to. I agree, eat as much as you want, but not because it's healthy. Know that you're eating food that's been deep fried and is likely horrible for you.

[hannahrae]

Speaking of my marriage... I left last night. I had to call the police because when I tried calling my mother to ask if I could stay with her I got my phone harshly slapped out of my hand.
And when I tried to pack, I wasn't able to do that either so I caved and called for a police escort to take me to my own home and let me pack my own things.

It wasn't Chinese buffet, it was take out, but my mom is holier than thou about food because she only eats organic.

Customers still suck. I'm not holding my tongue anymore when I speak with them.

[dace]

What you mentioned in the other thread had me worried, considering how your husband was accepting his brother's behaviour. This really sucks, being overpowered by your own partner. I hope things improve soon.

[rowan]

Glad you left and are staying safe. Consider a restraining order if need be. (I haven't read the other thread yet)

[hannahrae]

Sigh... I came back... I was promised things would change and I really don't want August (my son) to be in a split home so I really am willing to work on things IF I'm not the only one working one things. Not to excuse shitty behaviour but I think Joe was so worried about me leaving and that's why he acted so harshly. He's really scared of losing me ( as far as I can tell and as far as my neighbor and mother have said and they've talked to him at length about things). I don't want to be a doormat, and if things get worse I will not hesitate to find somewhere else to stay, but for now, I'm safe, at home being cooked FOR instead of cooking and am comfortably, nakedly sitting on the computer.

[edit the sad parts]

Nakedly sitting at the computer is the best way to sit at the computer. I hope things improve.

[hannahrae]

Other than being out of bacon, today has been a-ok

[Sonic#]

^ That's most days for me.

[hannahrae]

haha! My son who is only 14 months old ate more bacon than me this morning rendering me out of bacon! I'll have to snag some more from work when no one's looking.