kathyn wrote: rowan wrote:
kathyn wrote:Thats right penertration gives a man pleasure but not to woman. For a womans pleasure its all about the clit.
Why you assume raver is a guy?
Look, you're entitled to your own feelings about what you enjoy about sex. Please for the love of glod, stop projecting your bad experiences on the rest of us.
Sorry I took it that raver was a guy based on the response. Appoligise to anyone who took offence at my posts, but i guess I was just stating my experience and from what I understand (friends etc) that PIV is not very pleasurable for the woman. So maybe I am wrong and that some women like PIV sex.
Look, I get where you're coming from. A general focus on PIV sex, instead of other things too, has historically led to a lot of bad sex for a lot of women. And that is tragic, and we should all love clits and encourage people to think of a wide variety of activities as "sex." BUT! Lots of women, myself included, love PIV sex. Some women can get off on it alone, most can't. I can't, but it still feels AWESOME and makes it easier to get off. I believe it is also fairly common for women to enjoy PIV sex, but to require more warm-up activities than men--something I think also adds to the myth that women in general don't like PIV--really, we just need to be good and ready first!
Basically the problem is that you are saying "Women like/don't like _____" and that's just patently false because women are not all the same.
It's one thing to say "It seems like ______ is true for many/some/most women," it's another to declare pretty much anything to be true of all women.
Anyway, that all said, I have been with two Asian men, one Latino man, and a buncha white guys. The smallest and the largest were white guys. Everyone else was very random and did not conform to stereotypes.