Purely for oral sex purposes...

[Meperidine]

I use it for all oral sex, which confused someone I was talking to who uses it just to refer to oral sex on a penis. Wondered what the SF spread might look like.

[great girl wonder]

I use it for all oral sex but many people that I know mean it to be oral sex on a penis. That said many people I talk about sex stuff with talk more in general about oral sex performed on a male rather than on a female. So there's that major bias.

[cwbyrvr]

I tend to think of it as a term for fellatio.

[Aum]

Fellatio.

[Sonic#]

I see it as any oral sex, though I recognize that not everyone does.

[lillerina]

All oral sex, though I tend to use more directly descriptive terms (lick your cunt/suck your cock).

[Eravial]

All oral sex. I also use "blowjob" interchangeably.

[Storage and Disposal]

I still just think of fellatio when I hear blow job. I originally just thought of fellatio when I heard the word head as well, but nowadays I tend to think of it as both.

[monk]

I always think of skiis.

When I was in high school a ski bum friend has a tshirt that said "Give me Rossignol or give me Head"

but after skiis I think of oral sex with either or.

My favorite term for cunnilingus is "licking the Y"

and on that note here's a hilarious video.*which I'm sure most of you have seen

Colonel Angus comes home

[deanimal]

As much as I would like it to be a neutral term, and I use it for both, I think of fellatio first and I think most other people (that I know anyway) probably do too.

Edit: actually I use it for neither because I don't really care for it. But if I was going to use it, I might actually be more inclined to use it for cunnilingus, just to stick it to the kyrarchy (did I spell that right?). Definitely usually hear it the most for fellatio, though, thereby making that definition (in my circles) the most 'correct.'

Boyf and I use the word 'lick' for everything. Well, everything oral sex related. Or maybe occasionally "go down on," which I think of as very gender neutral in most circles.

[Bork]

Interesting. Never really thought about it before, but I define head as a blow job.

[Meperidine]

Yeah this was originally just a two-option poll and it seems I could have stuck with that.

I figure that it's referring to the giver's head and works for both sexes. The person I had this convo with said he'd thought of it like the head of the penis but that doesn't make as much sense...anyone have other explanations?

[cwbyrvr]

I always thought it referred to the head of the penis.

[Sonic#]

^ I don't know. I imagined it referred to the head giving the sex. In any case, it's not like I imagine either head when I hear the phrase generally; it's pretty well assimilated into oral sex for me.

[edit the sad parts]

^ I don't know. I imagined it referred to the head giving the sex. In any case, it's not like I imagine either head when I hear the phrase generally; it's pretty well assimilated into oral sex for me.

Me too. As in, someone's head between someone else's legs.

I really don't like that term though and never use it.

[Valentina Soccio]

Do any of you enjoy oral sex with a penis?

[deanimal]

I genuinely enjoy giving my current boyfriend oral sex. Other men I have felt more ambivalent about. I would do it because I enjoyed pleasuring them, but did not actively enjoy the act itself.

[Neko]

I use it universally. I mean, it just makes more sense. Why worry about using a different phrase for it? You use your head when you give it, no matter what kind of genitals are in your face. I get head, you get head, we all get head! Yay, head!

[Rainbow Dolphins]

I recognize that people use it for both and pretty much use context to figure it out. I don't think I've honestly ever used the term myself.