Do you enjoy performing oral sex with a penis?

by **Valentina Soccio** » Mon Jul 23, 14:45 2012

by **snowtime** » Mon Jul 23, 21:05 2012

I will only do it for the right person. It doesn't really turn me on or anything, but I do it if I want to give a gift to my signifigant other.

by **hannahrae** » Mon Jul 23, 21:25 2012

I just bought oral sex mints so hopefully they help in the matter. Spicing things up and whatnot

by **deanimal** » Mon Jul 23, 22:09 2012

This poll is reductive.

by **Valentina Soccio** » Mon Jul 23, 22:21 2012

deanimal wrote:This poll is reductive.

Could the poll be improved?

by **deanimal** » Mon Jul 23, 22:53 2012

I just think the options are... incomplete? I think most people enjoy it some percentage of the time, not all or nothing. Well, people who are attracted to other people with penises, anyway. And what about lesbians who enjoy performing oral sex on a penis? (totally extant)

by **Valentina Soccio** » Mon Jul 23, 23:08 2012

deanimal wrote:I just think the options are... incomplete? I think most people enjoy it some percentage of the time, not all or nothing. Well, people who are attracted to other people with penises, anyway. And what about lesbians who enjoy performing oral sex on a penis? (totally extant)

I agree that there will be times when the same woman will or may not enjoy performing this type of oral sex. I'm not sure if I understand your second sentence, but there are problems when considering only the genitalia and not a person sexual identity. For lesbians who enjoy performing this type of oral sex there is the 'yes, I have a vagina' option.

The poll is crude, but I'm curious about how our population here compares to an okcupid population.

by **great girl wonder** » Tue Jul 24, 11:24 2012

Valentina Soccio wrote:The poll is crude, but I'm curious about how our population here compares to an okcupid population.

The long time members of spacefem tend to be open and willing and sexually uninhibited by societal norms. Sexuality for many is fluid and ever changing so trying to pinpoint acts that are always enjoyable is going to be an uphill battle.

by **Neko** » Tue Jul 24, 11:25 2012

I only enjoy it if I'm with someone who satisfies me sexually. If our sex life is healthy and awesome, like it is in my current relationship, then I love to do it. And I don't have to be asked to do it. It's fun to surprise him with it sometimes.

In relationships where I was expected to perform without ANY sort of reciprocation, where I was expected to act on their desires but never have mine even considered, well, it made it a chore. Worse than that, honestly.

So it really depends on the quality of everything else. At least for me.

by **edit the sad parts** » Tue Jul 24, 11:43 2012

Not a big fan. I like to please my S.O, so I do it... but this is not on my list of favourite things to do in the bedroom.

by **Aum** » Tue Jul 24, 13:37 2012

Only if the highest standards of cleanliness are adhered to.

by **Valentina Soccio** » Tue Jul 24, 13:41 2012

great girl wonder wrote:
Valentina Soccio wrote:The poll is crude, but I'm curious about how our population here compares to an okcupid population.

The long time members of spacefem tend to be open and willing and sexually uninhibited by societal norms. Sexuality for many is fluid and ever changing so trying to pinpoint acts that are always enjoyable is going to be an uphill battle.

You're right, maybe it is silly of me to try to compare the two populations.

by **Epicenity** » Mon Sep 3, 18:06 2012

One thing I haven't actually tried yet, but I would like to. It doesn't turn me off, I think as long as it's clean and safe it would be quite nice.

by **Axiomatic** » Tue Sep 4, 2:44 2012

But...you can't perform oral sex with a penis, you perform it with your mouth...

by **SapphoLane** » Sat Nov 24, 16:06 2012

I could totally live without it; wouldn't miss it.

by **Stedric** » Tue Dec 18, 18:22 2012

Can't really vote on this one because there is no option for "have never tried it". I'm assuming it wouldn't be my thing, as I'm not generally into dudes, but who knows? XD