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what was wrong with your ex-lover?

Postby spacebot » Mon Apr 24, 2:00 2017

what was wrong with your ex-lover?

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Re: what was wrong with your ex-lover?

Postby Galen » Mon Apr 24, 6:33 2017

I don't have any ex-lovers. Just dormant ones.

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Postby Sonic# » Mon Apr 24, 9:13 2017

Nothing was strictly wrong. She and I just had different approaches to emotional intimacy.

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Postby octarineoboe » Mon Apr 24, 16:46 2017

well, the main thing was that he lied to me and didn't seem interested in respecting the boundaries I tried to establish as a first step to rebuilding my trust. It was also a pretty big deal to me that he wanted to sleep with other women (not to rag on polyamory generally but it is not for me and he didn't take my feelings seriously). And once I ended it he continued to behave in ways that showed extreme self-centeredness.

(i'm getting through it but it's been a rough ...five months? Shit, that's really how long ago this started.)

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Postby Taurwen » Mon Apr 24, 19:08 2017

Nothing really, other than he's now several provinces away. We left each other on good terms.

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Re: what was wrong with your ex-lover?

Postby DarkOne » Tue Apr 25, 6:29 2017

Also nothing wrong, just general and serious lack of compatibility. I think our initial attraction was based on an idealized theory of the other instead of reality. When reality kicked in, it was no bueno. Too similar in personality aspects in which we should've been complementing each other, too different in values where we should've been aligned.
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Re: what was wrong with your ex-lover?

Postby Storage and Disposal » Tue Apr 25, 12:15 2017

Long story short, she pushed me down into a well of depression until I didn't care about what happened the next day, then she convinced me to have unprotected sex and later revealed that she just wanted a baby and didn't care who the father was.
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Postby DarkOne » Tue Apr 25, 12:23 2017

Storage and Disposal wrote:Long story short, she pushed me down into a well of depression until I didn't care about what happened the next day, then she convinced me to have unprotected sex and later revealed that she just wanted a baby and didn't care who the father was.

Well... that's seven different levels of fucked up.
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Re: what was wrong with your ex-lover?

Postby melsbells » Tue Apr 25, 15:31 2017

Nothing, but there was definitely something wrong with me. I used to think that we met too early. Now, I don't think about it.

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Re: what was wrong with your ex-lover?

Postby rowan » Tue Apr 25, 19:03 2017

Eh. I dunno. Most of them have been fine. That one guy though was a jerk.
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