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Re: Which gender are you sexually attracted to?

Postby LeftytheSpaceMonkey » Fri Mar 20, 11:45 2009

[quote="Xinzang"][quote="vega_pleiades"]I consider myself to be pansexual. I've dated both men and women, but I tend to lean more towards men. As of this writing, I have a massive crush on my male best friend.[/quote]

What is a pansexual?[/quote]

I might be wrong here, but I'm fairly certain that it means being attracted to people with no regard given to gender/sex. (as opposed to bisexuality which doesn't technically include, I suppose hermaphrodites? or genderqueer people, maybe?)
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Re: Which gender are you sexually attracted to?

Postby Tookie » Fri Mar 20, 15:04 2009

Yeah. I've always heard it used to mean attracted to people of any gender/identification.

Or, (usually) in jest, just plain out attracted to everyone.
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Re: Which gender are you sexually attracted to?

Postby Crazedllama » Sun Mar 29, 11:54 2009

Pansexual, I guess. I'm kind of uncomfortable with labeling it, I guess, because I'm not sure how fully it encompasses me. I'm attracted to people regardless of gender, though, or their biological sex, so I guess it sort of fits.
With my current boyfriend, I'm all for penis, though. He's gender queer, but I guess I still refer to him as male because really, I have no idea what else to say. :/
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Re: Which gender are you sexually attracted to?

Postby RockinRose » Sat May 2, 14:23 2009

I'm bisexual, or pansexual.

I've been romantically involved with/dated more men than women, but for sexual attraction, gender is all but irrelevant.
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Re: Which gender are you sexually attracted to?

Postby SirLirin » Tue May 5, 21:29 2009

I'm bi, but I think I'm always going to end up with guys due to being awkward about liking girls. Either because the ones I get crushes on are straight or dating someone else, be they girl or guy. Besides the one person I REALLY have feelings for, and have had feelings for for a LOOOONG time is a guy.

Perhaps pansexual is a good way of describing me as well, because I don't think gender should matter, but at the same time I am attracted to BOTH sexes and there is a difference between gender and sex.
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Re: Which gender are you sexually attracted to?

Postby Aum » Wed May 6, 3:27 2009

I'm attracted to men.
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Re: Which gender are you sexually attracted to?

Postby Lime » Fri May 8, 16:32 2009

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Re: Which gender are you sexually attracted to?

Postby Eater of Socks » Sun Oct 25, 2:19 2009

I describe myself as 'queer'. I'm mostly attracted to women, but also transfolk and female-bodied queers. It's complicated.
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Postby Fishstick » Sun Oct 25, 16:21 2009

[quote="Meperidine"]I've been known to carouse with both genders. I am currently, as of this writing, doing the nasty with a boy, though this time last year a rather awful, very emotionally serious few months of a relationship with a girl had just ended and my first kiss was a girl. So far I'm thinking boys are better. Girls are much more attractive but I just can't handle the drama that comes with being with one. Plus it's easier to pussy-whip a guy. These things are worth being less hot and bad at eating snatch.[/quote]


eww, multitasking and telling about it is just too much! jk...

When I read this I wasn't thinking men/women, but types of men and women, like effeminate or masculine men, men/women people who don't have obvious gender affiliation, ect.
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Re: Which gender are you sexually attracted to?

Postby Barkey » Sun Oct 25, 17:12 2009

I like women, though I have a tendency to like pretty but tomboyish ones, we can better see eye to eye together and spend time doing guy stuff without her hating it.
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Re: Which gender are you sexually attracted to?

Postby yeahyeahyeah » Mon Oct 26, 5:54 2009

I like men. And women.

I'm terribly shallow.
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Re: Which gender are you sexually attracted to?

Postby squashlingchaotic » Fri Nov 13, 19:11 2009

I like guys, for the most part.
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Re: Which gender are you sexually attracted to?

Postby Zeph » Wed Nov 18, 13:15 2009

Men
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Re: Which gender are you sexually attracted to?

Postby skycloud86 » Tue Feb 2, 8:28 2010

I'm probably bisexual or pansexual. Not sure yet.
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Re: Which gender are you sexually attracted to?

Postby meddling kid » Tue Feb 2, 9:16 2010

Men. Preferably toned and well read men. But that can be let slide depending on how much you know about Batman comics ;)
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Re: Which gender are you sexually attracted to?

Postby Mike_C » Sat Jul 31, 12:06 2010

I am attracted to women. Especially ones that are closer to my own age 40 to 50.
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Re: Which gender are you sexually attracted to?

Postby Leodhasach » Wed Aug 25, 22:44 2010

All of them. I have been in relationships with gay men, straight women, bi men, bi women, and gender-queer women.

I tend to prefer bi and gender-queer women, though. Male gender in a female body is... interesting. The two women I've known like this (and one that I have dated) were both bi to some degree, and neither of them wanted to transition because it's basically impossible to create an effective FtM penis.
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Re: Which gender are you sexually attracted to?

Postby Sonic# » Thu Aug 26, 7:20 2010

Primarily women. Once in a blue moon, I see a man I'm attracted to.
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Re: Which gender are you sexually attracted to?

Postby Hufflepuff » Mon Apr 11, 8:16 2011

I love women. Like, really, really LOVE women. Womanhood and femininity seems sacred and divine and holy to me, something worth worshipping. Not in a self-flagellating way; what I mean is, women are transcendentally, religiously attractive to me. Sexually, yes, but it's so profound I feel I have to describe in detail just how great women are. With my face inbetween a woman's legs I feel like I'm staring into the face of god, smelling the scent of heaven. Er, just being poetic; I'm not a religious type, myself. This sounds sappy, but I really do feel like every woman has the potential to be a goddess. Men can be kings of men, yes, and women can be queens of women, and you can define yourself any other way you like and be monarchal, but only women have the potential of divinity, and I drink that divinity in with rapture.

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That said? I am SO gay for Robert Pattinson, and I'm not the only one. We all recognize that women can be so beautiful as to steal the attractions of otherwise-heterosexual women, but so can men be so beautiful as to steal the attractions of otherwise-heterosexual men. Talk about Adonis DNA; I'd jump through any hurtle to gaze into those eyes, to be kissed by those lips, to be held by those arms. He looks like crap in the Twilight movies, but in real life, especially with that stubble? *quivers* I totally understand, now, how a woman could self-identify as exclusively heterosexual, but relent that she'd take a swing at Angelina Joliee given the chance.
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Re: Which gender are you sexually attracted to?

Postby God is an Englishman » Sun Jul 10, 8:41 2011

Woman.

Do I have to explain why?
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Re: Which gender are you sexually attracted to?

Postby lykin005 » Sat Aug 20, 22:53 2011

I'm attracted to woman of all kind's. Blondes, brunettes, black, white, petite, curvy. That makes me sound like I have no standards but I actually have high standards I just find woman of all sort's can be attractive as opposed to only fit young blondes with big boobs. I also have a thing for cortana, shodan, and the like.
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Re: Which gender are you sexually attracted to?

Postby God is an Englishman » Tue Aug 23, 4:00 2011

I am attracted to nothing.
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Re: Which gender are you sexually attracted to?

Postby PervervialSage » Mon Sep 5, 19:35 2011

I am sexually attracted to fire and I eat glass.
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Re: Which gender are you sexually attracted to?

Postby great girl wonder » Fri Sep 9, 7:14 2011

Men. Smart men preferably but good looking will do in a pinch.
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