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I need Advice...

Postby Babydoll101 » Sat May 5, 2:47 2012

I've always been a shy person. I always sat on the fringes of groups and had extremely low self esteem. Recently i began dating my first boyfriend, and at first i thought hes was great. He was funny (made to many offensive jokes tho), he was handsome, and he made me feel really special and i felt like i really matter to him. But yesterday i was at his house watching "Horrible Bosses" and the second a sex scene came on he began rubbing up against me and kissing me on my neck and such. I told him to stop but he just plain wouldn't. He asked me if i wanted to have sex with him but i refused, but he kept kissing me so I yelled at him and began crying, and when i told him to drive me home he started ranting about how "He was way out of my league and that I didnt deserve him." he made a bunch of sexist comments and then made me walk home! I was so upset that when i got home i called the police and told them he raped me. They arrested him and i feel awful. I think it was justified because i was almost raped, which is almost as bad as the real thing.. What should i do? Should i keep pressing the charges?
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Re: I need Advice...

Postby Aum » Sat May 5, 3:00 2012

You should consult a lawyer with this question.
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Re: I need Advice...

Postby Amuro » Sat May 5, 4:13 2012

Well you should have said he tried to rape you or he sexually assaulted you. So far it looks like you messed up in lying to the police about what happened that evening. Like Aum said you should talk to a lawyer fast.
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Re: I need Advice...

Postby Babydoll101 » Sat May 5, 11:44 2012

Why are men such pigs? i just dont know what to say anymore
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Re: I need Advice...

Postby lillerina » Sat May 5, 12:09 2012

We are not lawyers and as such cannot give legal advice. Please consult a lawyer with your question. I am locking this thread now.
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