The most important question I was trying to answer with the survey was this: "When is a baby most likely to spontaneously show up?" The graph above shows the percentages, based on 8219 responses. 6207 of the deliveries were as a result of labor occuring spontaneously. The chart only shows these deliveries, which is why the percentages do not add up to 100%, because only 76% of participants had spontaneous (non-induced) labor.
The statistics right now are as follows:
|Day||Week||Births||Running Total||Percent||Running Total %|
|245||35W,0D||11||11||0.1 %||0.1 %|
|246||35W,1D||15||26||0.2 %||0.3 %|
|247||35W,2D||9||35||0.1 %||0.4 %|
|248||35W,3D||19||54||0.2 %||0.7 %|
|249||35W,4D||12||66||0.1 %||0.8 %|
|250||35W,5D||15||81||0.2 %||1 %|
|251||35W,6D||13||94||0.2 %||1.1 %|
|252||36W,0D||24||118||0.3 %||1.4 %|
|253||36W,1D||19||137||0.2 %||1.7 %|
|254||36W,2D||26||163||0.3 %||2 %|
|255||36W,3D||31||194||0.4 %||2.4 %|
|256||36W,4D||24||218||0.3 %||2.7 %|
|257||36W,5D||30||248||0.4 %||3 %|
|258||36W,6D||30||278||0.4 %||3.4 %|
|259||37W,0D||43||321||0.5 %||3.9 %|
|260||37W,1D||44||365||0.5 %||4.4 %|
|261||37W,2D||41||406||0.5 %||4.9 %|
|262||37W,3D||67||473||0.8 %||5.8 %|
|263||37W,4D||70||543||0.9 %||6.6 %|
|264||37W,5D||58||601||0.7 %||7.3 %|
|265||37W,6D||90||691||1.1 %||8.4 %|
|266||38W,0D||94||785||1.1 %||9.6 %|
|267||38W,1D||90||875||1.1 %||10.6 %|
|268||38W,2D||87||962||1.1 %||11.7 %|
|269||38W,3D||122||1084||1.5 %||13.2 %|
|270||38W,4D||156||1240||1.9 %||15.1 %|
|271||38W,5D||142||1382||1.7 %||16.8 %|
|272||38W,6D||172||1554||2.1 %||18.9 %|
|273||39W,0D||190||1744||2.3 %||21.2 %|
|274||39W,1D||174||1918||2.1 %||23.3 %|
|275||39W,2D||187||2105||2.3 %||25.6 %|
|276||39W,3D||234||2339||2.8 %||28.5 %|
|277||39W,4D||256||2595||3.1 %||31.6 %|
|278||39W,5D||259||2854||3.2 %||34.7 %|
|279||39W,6D||300||3154||3.7 %||38.4 %|
|280||40W,0D||312||3466||3.8 %||42.2 %|
|281||40W,1D||306||3772||3.7 %||45.9 %|
|282||40W,2D||278||4050||3.4 %||49.3 %|
|283||40W,3D||269||4319||3.3 %||52.5 %|
|284||40W,4D||243||4562||3 %||55.5 %|
|285||40W,5D||258||4820||3.1 %||58.6 %|
|286||40W,6D||254||5074||3.1 %||61.7 %|
|287||41W,0D||259||5333||3.2 %||64.9 %|
|288||41W,1D||176||5509||2.1 %||67 %|
|289||41W,2D||147||5656||1.8 %||68.8 %|
|290||41W,3D||155||5811||1.9 %||70.7 %|
|291||41W,4D||112||5923||1.4 %||72.1 %|
|292||41W,5D||82||6005||1 %||73.1 %|
|293||41W,6D||67||6072||0.8 %||73.9 %|
|294||42W,0D||55||6127||0.7 %||74.5 %|
|295||42W,1D||21||6148||0.3 %||74.8 %|
|296||42W,2D||21||6169||0.3 %||75.1 %|
|297||42W,3D||12||6181||0.1 %||75.2 %|
|298||42W,4D||9||6190||0.1 %||75.3 %|
|299||42W,5D||6||6196||0.1 %||75.4 %|
|300||42W,6D||2||6198||0 %||75.4 %|
|301||43W,0D||9||6207||0.1 %||75.5 %|
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Probability of delivery within x days of a given date
Length of pregnancy by week
Spontaneous labor and due date determination
Length of pregnancy, comparing subsequent births for individual moms
Length of pregnancy for first time vs. second & third time moms
Length of pregnancy, type of delivery
Gestation vs. Birthweight
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Average day of spontaneous labor vs. age of mother at time of birth
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It's a huge responsibility, the child will have to present their names to people their entire lives and it's a deeply-engrained component of their identity. I want to choose a name that will be appropriate for a person of any age, I like unique and strong names, especially classics, but you have to consider all diminutive nicknames (for example, I thought the name Andromeda would be sweet, but people could call her Andy, we could try calling her Ada or Meda, but it's not totally up to us). Names must be phonetic in English (I love the name Siobhan, but I wouldn't curse an American girl with that burden).
We, too, ran into the issue of the boy's names we picked out spelling out the initials FAT and later FIT. We have a last name that is typically given as a first name. I wanted us to take the plunge and change our last names together. Maybe Mr. Zeph will be up for this one day?
My main naming concerns:
1. Must be unique
2. Must be spelled phonetically
As someone who only knows English, I am so impressed by people who are bilingual, trilingual, or multilingual. Only knowing English feels like you can only understand part of the world. The problem I've had is I don't really know what language I should try to learn.
I think it's a wonderful thing to be able to teach a child two languages. The part others have raised about being able to communicate with family members makes it that much more rewarding.
Don't worry about the naysayers - they always have to pick on something, and if it wasn't that, they'd just find something else.
Child care is BEYOND insanely expensive... When my husband and I were deciding to to have children we agreed to both go part time (4 days a week) in order to make our lives easier (we both make more than we would pay for day care, so we did take a financial hit with this decision). For example, whoever is home on a given day can throw in some laundry, or some food into the slow cooker, run errands... All of these things multiply in number once you have kids at the same time becoming more difficult to schedule. Unfortunately, when my daughter was around 1 my work situation changed and I had to go full time... let me tell you, it was definitely easier when I wasn't.
Anyway, the point I am getting to here is, when kids are little they require a lot of attention and sometimes (often?) some career sacrifice but it's TEMPORARY. When we decided to get pregnant we agreed that we would both slow down career wise for 5 years. For us it means, we do our jobs, we come home. We don't sign up for extra projects, we try to limit our travel, but it's all just for now. We also decided to have our kids close together for that reason (they'll be 2 years apart). Anyway, it's something to keep in mind. An 8 year old goes to school and doesn't need constant monitoring to keep from killing him/herself. It's ok to decide to slow down for a period of time, knowing that you'll come roaring back once they're older.
It's alright to discuss these topics, but there needs to be boundaries. I would use the following, personally:
1. Don't insert yourself into a stranger's situation or bring up the topic yourself to a stranger.
2. It's probably not your business if you're not a parent yourself.
3. Ask the person why they are making these choices, don't assume.
4. Try to end on a positive note.
I don't feel right bringing up to my sister that I don't agree that she spanks my nephew, but after being a teacher, I am pretty forgiving of parents' choices. It's the hardest role there is. Even though I want to raise my children on nutritious meals, cloth diapers, and museum passes, I know I'm going to slip up and give them fries, Huggies, and Disney DVD's.
I also feel that home birth is a fine option for low-risk births, where the mother is well coached and the midwife is reputable. If you live near a hospital and your midwife is highly qualified, why not? They have equipment. I won't be choosing this option, but with any birth plan there needs to be a series of precautions taken.
Here's a really funny humor bit about sleep, but the same general idea can apply to pretty much any "advice" given to new parents.
https://chimericalcapuchin.wordpress.co ... babybooks/
^I agree with that!
Part of "gender neutral" parenting is supplying the side of things that doesn't get given by other people.
How can you tell who has been vaccinated or not?
That's the tricky part, you can't really. So unless the parents say something you never actually know.
First 2 were on purpose, 3rd kinda not so much, 4th was totally an oops (when you think things are broken, they have this habit of fixing themselves). Made sure we were done after that. Aside from that, we knew we'd have at least 2, likely 3, but the timing was not at all what we thought we were "planning". Such is life.
Some of my family members who work in the healthcare system have overheard some doozies.
I work in healthcare, so I can relate. I think my favourite was a kid called "Abcde" which we were assured was pronounced "Abasidee". Mirena was a cute choice, named after the contraceptive device. Then there have been some good narrative names including places of birth - e.g. "Shell" (after the baby born in a petrol station carpark) - and places of conception - e.g. "...(a suburb which I'll keep secret - just in case this somehow breaches some poor kid's privacy) bus stop."
I'd advise against giving clothes. Not only does it eliminate the need to choose colors, but most parents get enough baby clothes.
At baby showers, I always give gifts for the mom (lotion, foot bath, etc.) and medical supplies for the baby (like snot suckers). Diapers in the bigger sizes for when the baby is older, too. Don't forget to throw in 6-12 month baby supplies.
And that includes parents too - I try to always ask "can I have a hug/kiss" rather than "give me a hug/kiss" and that she can always always say no if she doesn't want to, even with me. (She's old enough now that I've had enough practice that even writing "give me a hug" sounds weird to me)
Also I think on a more general level it's good to practice asking these kinds of questions anyway. Not just for abuse, but in general if you want to know what's going on in their life. Asking "how was school" gets an "I dunno" even now, but asking more specific things like "What was something funny that happened today" or "What did you do at recess?" really gets her talking more. Not sure where I read that, but the kinds of questions above made me think that sometimes just asking a better question will help get at what you want to know more than asking generalities.
The other thing is definitely definitely not making judgment on those things that they're saying. Instead try "What did you think about that
Bonding with my future infant is a concern of mine, because my depression is debilitating. I'm relieved to know that normally functioning women don't feel that head-over-heels mushy baby love.
Probably not. As we pointed out in the other topic, 34 weeks isn't even on the chart because it's so rare:
You'd be better off worrying over a car accident.
A Beautiful article by writer Kathryn McDowell recently I read liked to share with you
Why Pocket Diapers Are Better Than Disposables :
As a young parent, you've no doubt heard of pocket diapers. Perhaps a neighbor or a co-worker told you about them. Or it was your babysitter, who asked you to get them soon. Well, so many families in America are today turning to pocket diapers for their little ones. But a majority still holds on to disposable diapers, while being curious about pocket diapers at the same time.
Why are diapers so great? For a start, pocket diapers come with brand new fabrics and super absorbent pads, are easy to put on, simple to take off, easy to wash and quick to dry. And they are better than disposable diapers.
They are Cheaper
Until your child is potty trained, you'd probably spend something close to $2500 to $3000 on diapers - which is quite a lot. Biodegradable disposable diapers are even costlier. But with pocket ones, you won't have to spend anything more than $350 to $400, till your child is potty trained.