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As you know, I share my posts with other men and we all agree on what Im saying. Edit: "I will say you are correct its my opinion though"

If feminism does have a good foundation for gender equality, I just dont see it. I'll leave it at that.
by Skeezy in Random
Fri Nov 16 7:42 PM

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Fri Nov 16 3:00 PM

Quiz: What Color Are You?

Forget the four-color quizzes, this one displays your personality as one of the hundreds of named HTML colors.
Fri Nov 16 3:00 AM

Warning: Extreme racism, suicide and self hatred.

Youtube has algorithms that can identify key words, in a video so it wouldn't even be hard to find videos like this and report them. They need to be held to account as to why this person and others have made video after video that shows them to be threats even to themselves and/or others, yet nobody got him the help. by Pikachu in Ranting
Thu Nov 15 7:57 PM

The Baby Due Date Statistics Survey

I wondered if due dates were accurate. 5,000+ internet friends chimed in. See the charts here.
Thu Nov 15 3:00 AM

Pregnancy Calendar

For geeky moms like me who need to remember not just what week they're on, but their percent completion.
Wed Nov 14 3:00 AM

‘Transgender’ Could Be Defined Out of Existence Under Trump Administration

I think establishments should, not discrimnate but choose their own views about how they do things so people with certain beliefs can still maintain certain environments and it leaves the choice with people. While discrimination should be shunned policies can vary especially in education. Peoples beliefs are varied and hopefully states will cater to such.

Because of this and other things they should loosen school zoning restrictions.
by Skeezy in Ranting
Tue Nov 13 4:29 PM

What was your favorite movie as a kid?

One of my favs was the movie "monster squad". I actually ordered a dvd and forced my wife to watch this with me recently.

Frankenstein and a bunch of kids (and bad language) vs Dracula, the wolf man, a mummy, and a creature from a lagoon.

"time bandits" , "Explorers" , and "godzilla1985" are a close 2nd. Classics. I have to watch time bandits again cause I only remember bits and pieces. Explorer and godzilla Ive watched recently.

by Skeezy in Random
Tue Nov 13 4:14 PM

Links to Spacefem Elsewhere


Tue Nov 13 3:00 PM

Mnemonic device generator

Type in letters you want to remember, we'll make up a funny sentence to help
Tue Nov 13 3:00 AM

What games have you played lately?

I've been playing Dragon Quest XI for about two months. I'm nearing the end of the "second act" of the game. I've heard there are three.

This is certainly my favorite Dragon Quest game. These are old-school RPGs, with turn-based combat and lots of story and NPC dialogue. Lots of minigames - the casino is the best iteration yet, with Slime Slots being the most fun I've ever had setting a game on autoplay. The characters are fairly ranged, going from the conventional Hero and the thief friend Erik to a mysterious flamboyant juggler, a princess-turned-martial-artist, twin magicians, and others.
by Sonic# in Mixed Media
Mon Nov 12 7:37 PM

10-Second PHP Tutorial

The fastest introduction I could possibly muster.
Mon Nov 12 3:00 PM

Quiz: What kind of engineer should you be?

Engineering is one of the coolest jobs in the world, but there are so many disciplines it can be a little daunting to choose one for yourself! I wasn't happy with the existing quizzes, they were mostly way too direct (do you like bridges or wires? uh...) or way too career-spammy, and they were all way too serious. So with that in mind I took some personality traits and kinda did my best attempt at mapping them to engineering fields. It's not scientific or accurate because it really doesn't matter, engineers do so many things and move around so much there's no way to predict what path you'll end up on... so relax! This point of this test is to combine the fun of a personality quiz with the usefulness of a career test... hey look at that, fun AND useful? It's getting engineer-y already!
Mon Nov 12 3:00 AM

kids' mail subscriptions

Does anyone get a box or magazine subscription for their kid? Any you would recommend?

My mom had the idea of giving my kid Little Passports but they don't ship to Finland. Kiwico has a similar line that will come here, but there's still the concern about how well they're teaching about different cultures, how much does it other and ignore colonialism? Does it cross the line from appreciating world cultures into consuming cultures for entertainment?

by melsbells in Pregnancy & Parenting
Sun Nov 11 12:47 PM

The Skirt Pattern Calculator

I like to sew. This calculator tells you how to make an arc for any skirt you've got the fabric for - just type in your measurements.
Sun Nov 11 3:00 AM

Quiz: Do you need a boyfriend?

Are you a young single gal wondering if you need a man? Take our quiz.
Sat Nov 10 3:00 AM

Can you sing on key?

Whenever I sing, usually for some holiday event, someone comments that I have a good voice. My musical training was exclusively through music classes in elementary and middle school, so on a good day I can identify notes on a sheet and ding them out on a piano. So I don't know if I'm in key. by Sonic# in Random
Sat Nov 3 3:47 PM

What would you change about your home?

I'd have actually put up the mirror in my guest bathroom. We're renting, and the situation has been otherwise good (prompt care for A/C and other maintenance requests), but it's so weird to move in and find the guest bathroom mirror on the living room floor. by Sonic# in Random
Sat Nov 3 3:44 PM

Kepler telescope

Awesome gallery link, Nachos. :D

I remember attending a convention panel where Kepler was being discussed. It hadn't been launched yet.

What I love: how fine the evidence is. The actual Kepler images are basically capturing light from stars: . It's the interpretations of changes in light and artists' renditions that give them life.
by Sonic# in Science & Technology
Thu Nov 1 6:11 PM