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Wed Apr 24 3:00 PM

Pregnancy Calendar

For geeky moms like me who need to remember not just what week they're on, but their percent completion.
Wed Apr 24 3:00 AM

Talk about your TTRPG characters!

I love designing characters, both on paper and digitally. The tools in digital adaptations of tabletop games like Pathfinder: Kingmaker or Neverwinter Nights are half the fun for me.

In the Pathfinder campaign I'm playing in, Destrum is an aasimar cleric of Abadar who serves as the manager and drummer of the band Synergy. He's the lawful neutral type who keeps the mostly-chaotic-good group functioning. (I write our party inventory list in-character.) We're just now getting into the levels (5 and 6) where spellcasters start to get clutch support spells, so gameplay-wise he's no longer just the frontline healer.

by Sonic# in Mixed Media
Tue Apr 23 7:13 PM

Links to Spacefem Elsewhere


Tue Apr 23 3:00 PM

Mnemonic device generator

Type in letters you want to remember, we'll make up a funny sentence to help
Tue Apr 23 3:00 AM

10-Second PHP Tutorial

The fastest introduction I could possibly muster.
Mon Apr 22 3:00 PM

Women in history and an examination of gender norms:

The Annenberg School for Communication and Journalism also produced a report on females in the music industry ( According to this report on average per year over the seven years from 2012 to 2018, 21.7% of artists were women (out of 700 songs) (3.6 males to 1 female); 12.3% of songwriters were women (700 songs) and 2.1% of producers were women (400 songs). Further from 2013 to 2019 the percentage of female Grammy nominates were: 8.2% for record of the year, 6.6% for album of the year, 20.6% for song of the year, 41.1% for best new artist and 2.6% for producer of the year. Further only 24 of “Rolling Stone’s” 100 Greatest Singers of All Time are women, see here (dated 2010). Of course Rolling Stone is only considering what I would call “Pop Singers” that is singers that one would hear on most commercial radio stations.

by Endymion in Feminism
Mon Apr 22 12:35 PM

Quiz: What kind of engineer should you be?

Engineering is one of the coolest jobs in the world, but there are so many disciplines it can be a little daunting to choose one for yourself! I wasn't happy with the existing quizzes, they were mostly way too direct (do you like bridges or wires? uh...) or way too career-spammy, and they were all way too serious. So with that in mind I took some personality traits and kinda did my best attempt at mapping them to engineering fields. It's not scientific or accurate because it really doesn't matter, engineers do so many things and move around so much there's no way to predict what path you'll end up on... so relax! This point of this test is to combine the fun of a personality quiz with the usefulness of a career test... hey look at that, fun AND useful? It's getting engineer-y already!
Mon Apr 22 3:00 AM

The Skirt Pattern Calculator

I like to sew. This calculator tells you how to make an arc for any skirt you've got the fabric for - just type in your measurements.
Sun Apr 21 3:00 AM

Quiz: Do you need a boyfriend?

Are you a young single gal wondering if you need a man? Take our quiz.
Sat Apr 20 3:00 AM

Quiz: What Color Are You?

Forget the four-color quizzes, this one displays your personality as one of the hundreds of named HTML colors.
Fri Apr 19 3:00 AM

The Baby Due Date Statistics Survey

I wondered if due dates were accurate. 5,000+ internet friends chimed in. See the charts here.
Thu Apr 18 3:00 AM

Should white feminists and feminist allies criticize minority created media the same?


So you'd argue...

Aaaaaand this debate is officially over. I'll answer this question swiftly. No.

I'm not conversing with someone that swiftly runs to putting words in my mouth.
by Storage and Disposal in Feminism
Wed Apr 10 3:05 AM