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by Aum
Fri May 18, 9:57 2018
Forum: Ranting
Topic: Knee Surgery
Replies: 8
Views: 106

Re: Knee Surgery

The post-op sore throat really sucks... I know it well. Sometimes they are so rough when they put the tube in. I drink a lot of tea with raw honey in it after times like that, and it helps... and eating popsicles. Have you ever seen those empty plastic popsicle molds you can buy at the dollar store?...
by Aum
Tue May 15, 9:29 2018
Forum: Ranting
Topic: Knee Surgery
Replies: 8
Views: 106

Re: Knee Surgery

Eating a collagen rich diet or taking collagen supplements post-op will make it heal a lot faster, along with L-glutamine. There's a company called Great Lakes that sells a collagen powder that you just add to water, but there are many collagen powder producers out there. I prefer collagen supplemen...
by Aum
Wed May 9, 0:46 2018
Forum: Ranting
Topic: Leelah Alcorn's situation wouldn't have gotten better. (Trigger Warning)
Replies: 5
Views: 173

Re: Leelah Alcorn's situation wouldn't have gotten better. (Trigger Warning)

It gets better for people with privilege, or it starts good in the first place. Everyone else has to struggle to make it better and doesn't always succeed.

I'm not jaded, just being realistic.
by Aum
Wed May 2, 12:11 2018
Forum: Random
Topic: When does one become "a local"?
Replies: 12
Views: 290

Re: When does one become "a local"?

It may just be simpler to say that you have to be born there to be a local. Hmm. I don't feel like a local there, anymore, really. Too many things have changed back there, even though I was there a long time. I suppose a lot of people don't feel local anywhere anymore. In Vancouver? Hard to feel li...
by Aum
Wed May 2, 3:00 2018
Forum: Random
Topic: Have you ever pretended you don't know something?
Replies: 8
Views: 243

Re: Have you ever pretended you don't know something?

Over the years I've learned to subdue my brilliance because a lot of people completely miss the point of what I'm saying or they take it personally. As I get older I'm becoming like a wild animal that just wants to conserve energy whenever possible, which means meaningful engagements only. I've lear...
by Aum
Wed May 2, 2:56 2018
Forum: Random
Topic: silly destressers
Replies: 11
Views: 269

Re: silly destressers

I love going for long walks at night when most people are at home and in bed, blasting my ipod. I can walk huge distances. I'll stop in my favourite parks to stretch on the monkey bars and benches before moving on. I have a rich inner fantasy life so it's win-win when I can exercise my body while le...
by Aum
Wed May 2, 2:52 2018
Forum: Random
Topic: When does one become "a local"?
Replies: 12
Views: 290

Re: When does one become "a local"?

I have honestly never felt at home anywhere, so I'm not sure how to really answer. I'm assuming a local is someone who has spent a lot of time and energy getting to know a place, relating to its culture, and knowing a lot of its ins and outs fluently. But when I examine what I just said, it doesn't ...
by Aum
Thu Apr 26, 10:43 2018
Forum: Pregnancy & Parenting
Topic: Unplanned, polyamorous pregnancy situation
Replies: 8
Views: 610

Re: Unplanned, polyamorous pregnancy situation

It sounds like you can't predictably rely on either of these men to bring another life into the world, and your 10 month boyfriend is too new to know either way. Wanting children "some day" is not exactly a ringing commitment. You need to get real here. You're potentially bringing a human being into...
by Aum
Thu Apr 26, 10:39 2018
Forum: Science & Technology
Topic: Brand new human organ identified - REALLY!!!
Replies: 6
Views: 352

Re: Brand new human organ identified - REALLY!!!

I think as modern medicine starts to gain a better understanding of holism in the body (vs. compartmentalism), they will begin to discover more organs like this. I have to admit though, I'm having a hard time understanding what this interstitutium is about. In Chinese medicine they have an organ cal...
by Aum
Fri Mar 30, 5:58 2018
Forum: Mixed Media
Topic: what's the last movie you saw?
Replies: 283
Views: 101660

Re: what's the last movie you saw?

Girlhood (Bande de Filles)

It was OK.
by Aum
Sat Mar 24, 18:27 2018
Forum: Random
Topic: How far are you from the ocean?
Replies: 13
Views: 387

Re: How far are you from the ocean?

I'm on a boat with internet.
by Aum
Sun Mar 18, 22:19 2018
Forum: Feminism
Topic: Equality VS Equity
Replies: 2
Views: 190

Re: Equality VS Equity

The two are related but they are talking about different things. Equality means everyone gets the same constitutional protections as well as the same human rights, without bias or prejudice. It does not mean that we're ignoring the factors that make things unfair for certain groups while giving ever...
by Aum
Sat Mar 3, 7:58 2018
Forum: Random
Topic: MGTOW: Enthusiastic Consent
Replies: 47
Views: 2330

Re: MGTOW: Enthusiastic Consent

I don't relate to this issue. In the gay world sex is openly discussed and agreed upon before it ever happens. Men even discuss limits on what can and can't happen, their likes and dislikes, etc. To me it would be kind of crazy to have sex without talking about sex beforehand. Well, we are talking ...
by Aum
Fri Mar 2, 13:40 2018
Forum: Random
Topic: MGTOW: Enthusiastic Consent
Replies: 47
Views: 2330

Re: MGTOW: Enthusiastic Consent

I don't relate to this issue. In the gay world sex is openly discussed and agreed upon before it ever happens. Men even discuss limits on what can and can't happen, their likes and dislikes, etc.

To me it would be kind of crazy to have sex without talking about sex beforehand.
by Aum
Mon Feb 26, 17:29 2018
Forum: Random
Topic: Do you believe in ghosts?
Replies: 17
Views: 886

Re: Do you believe in ghosts?

I grew up in a haunted house. It's not even a belief, just a fact of life for my family.
by Aum
Mon Feb 26, 12:43 2018
Forum: Feminism
Topic: The female price of male pleasure
Replies: 69
Views: 4009

Re: The female price of male pleasure

I don't really see the point of comparing which sex has the best pleasure or the worst sexual experience at the expense of the other sex. Our whole society is woefully sexually repressed with a lot of internalized shame. It's not helping anyone to continue the shaming. A lot of people don't even kno...
by Aum
Sun Feb 18, 0:10 2018
Forum: Polls
Topic: Best Star Trek Character
Replies: 14
Views: 1552

Re: Best Star Trek Character

Her symbiont lived in 8 different hosts, so she had the memories of 8 different lifetimes... men and women, married, different professions. She was old and wise. Also I just loved her personality.
by Aum
Sat Feb 17, 12:34 2018
Forum: Polls
Topic: Best Star Trek Character
Replies: 14
Views: 1552

Re: Best Star Trek Character

Jadzia Dax
by Aum
Wed Feb 7, 19:01 2018
Forum: Feminism
Topic: How do we beat these misogynists?
Replies: 21
Views: 2356

Re: How do we beat these misogynists?

I'm an idealist so in my mind we just need to not become like what we oppose. I understand action must be made but with wisdom and compassion. I've forgiven people who mistreated me. Verbally. I've had people get physical but I've returned the aggression in the past so we were both in the wrong. In...
by Aum
Mon Feb 5, 21:51 2018
Forum: Feminism
Topic: How do we beat these misogynists?
Replies: 21
Views: 2356

Re: How do we beat these misogynists?

Humiliation and public shaming tend to shut most people up, if there are sufficient numbers. I just can't help but feel it's a double standard. Humilation, public shaming. These are things I don't want done to me. I know itd shut me up. But why use the same aggressive ideas. It's not a bad idea, su...
by Aum
Fri Feb 2, 1:09 2018
Forum: Random
Topic: The State of the Uniom (lol) 2018
Replies: 1
Views: 267

Re: The State of the Uniom (lol) 2018

There's no hope really as long as Trump remains in office.
by Aum
Fri Feb 2, 0:20 2018
Forum: Feminism
Topic: How do we beat these misogynists?
Replies: 21
Views: 2356

Re: How do we beat these misogynists?

Humiliation and public shaming tend to shut most people up, if there are sufficient numbers.
by Aum
Fri Feb 2, 0:17 2018
Forum: Feminism
Topic: Masculine crossdresser reaction.
Replies: 15
Views: 1812

Re: Masculine crossdresser reaction.

It used to evoke a reaction in me, but then I got more acquainted with queer culture and now it doesn't bother me. I'm not a big Burning Man person but I have been to some events and the most hetero men wear skirts, dresses, tutus, you name it. At the end of the day it's just another piece of clothi...
by Aum
Tue Jan 23, 20:11 2018
Forum: Random
Topic: US Politics making Global waves.
Replies: 14
Views: 1048

Re: US Politics making Global waves.

Trump is an expert at slight of hand. The public is effectively distracted and divided while he wrecks the country for his own benefit #1 and his party's benefit #2. Sad to see. I think we are in for some dark times ahead, long-term ones. The institution of western democracy is at a cross-roads.
by Aum
Mon Jan 22, 1:45 2018
Forum: Pregnancy & Parenting
Topic: My Ectopic Pregnancy
Replies: 13
Views: 3246

Re: My Ectopic Pregancy

I've always wondered what causes ectopic pregnancy. I know what it is but why do some women get it and others don't? I'm so sorry for your ordeal... but I'm glad you are alive and made it through. Ectopic pregnancies can kill. Is there any way to have early detection next time? It must be so stressf...