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by Aum
Sat Sep 15, 15:32 2018
Forum: Ranting
Topic: Things are No Bueno
Replies: 8
Views: 218

Re: Things are No Bueno

This is kind of unrelated to what you're saying about your day to day problems... but I recently got my genetics done at 23andme and then plugged the raw data into a detox genetics analyzer. Turns out my body can't detox worth a damn and it's part of the reason why I'm prone to anxiety/depression. W...
by Aum
Sat Sep 15, 15:29 2018
Forum: Polls
Topic: Why doesn't anyone ever make a new poll?
Replies: 8
Views: 189

Re: Why doesn't anyone ever make a new poll?

spacebot is making most of the threads now, so is there a need for real humans anymore?

Automation is the death of spacefem! Increase post wages! Tear down the machines!

:D
by Aum
Wed Jul 18, 15:54 2018
Forum: Feminism
Topic: Compromise between Conservatives/TERFeminism and Transfeminism.
Replies: 11
Views: 498

Re: Compromise between Conservatives/TERFeminism and Transfeminism.

I don't really get the concerns about safety, to be honest. It's communally monitored in addition to being monitored by the organization providing the space. Nude beach culture is very benign. I have gone for years and only witnessed a few incidents (we're talking 2 or 3 in 10 years), mostly pervy ...
by Aum
Wed Jul 18, 12:19 2018
Forum: Feminism
Topic: Compromise between Conservatives/TERFeminism and Transfeminism.
Replies: 11
Views: 498

Re: Compromise between Conservatives/TERFeminism and Transfeminism.

I don't think this proposed compromise does anything to address the safety of trans persons in public restrooms or changing rooms. I've been to plenty of places that had single stall restrooms that weren't gendered, and plenty that were. There is no reason for a single occupancy restroom to specify...
by Aum
Fri Jul 13, 11:23 2018
Forum: Feminism
Topic: Compromise between Conservatives/TERFeminism and Transfeminism.
Replies: 11
Views: 498

Re: Compromise between Conservatives/TERFeminism and Transfeminism.

I don't think alot of men would be capable of not sexually harrassing woman in a shared changing room. Even if it only comes in the form of staring that makes the women feel threatened. That's the same argument that straight men make against sharing locker rooms with gay men. If you're so afraid of...
by Aum
Wed Jul 11, 16:21 2018
Forum: Feminism
Topic: Compromise between Conservatives/TERFeminism and Transfeminism.
Replies: 11
Views: 498

Re: Compromise between Conservatives/TERFeminism and Transfeminism.

I dunno... after being to nude beaches, where everyone is there including all the sexes, adults, children, the elderly, etc... I see a world where different change rooms aren't even necessary. Same with bathrooms. If you travel in Quebec there are unisex bathrooms. There's so much talk about having ...
by Aum
Sun Jun 10, 4:57 2018
Forum: Ranting
Topic: Finally happened.
Replies: 11
Views: 790

Re: Finally happened.

I can't imagine the logistical nightmare you're going through, especially while trying to negotiate with an insurance company.

My thoughts are with you for sure.
by Aum
Fri May 18, 9:57 2018
Forum: Ranting
Topic: Knee Surgery
Replies: 8
Views: 557

Re: Knee Surgery

The post-op sore throat really sucks... I know it well. Sometimes they are so rough when they put the tube in. I drink a lot of tea with raw honey in it after times like that, and it helps... and eating popsicles. Have you ever seen those empty plastic popsicle molds you can buy at the dollar store?...
by Aum
Tue May 15, 9:29 2018
Forum: Ranting
Topic: Knee Surgery
Replies: 8
Views: 557

Re: Knee Surgery

Eating a collagen rich diet or taking collagen supplements post-op will make it heal a lot faster, along with L-glutamine. There's a company called Great Lakes that sells a collagen powder that you just add to water, but there are many collagen powder producers out there. I prefer collagen supplemen...
by Aum
Wed May 9, 0:46 2018
Forum: Ranting
Topic: Leelah Alcorn's situation wouldn't have gotten better. (Trigger Warning)
Replies: 5
Views: 498

Re: Leelah Alcorn's situation wouldn't have gotten better. (Trigger Warning)

It gets better for people with privilege, or it starts good in the first place. Everyone else has to struggle to make it better and doesn't always succeed.

I'm not jaded, just being realistic.
by Aum
Wed May 2, 12:11 2018
Forum: Random
Topic: When does one become "a local"?
Replies: 12
Views: 642

Re: When does one become "a local"?

It may just be simpler to say that you have to be born there to be a local. Hmm. I don't feel like a local there, anymore, really. Too many things have changed back there, even though I was there a long time. I suppose a lot of people don't feel local anywhere anymore. In Vancouver? Hard to feel li...
by Aum
Wed May 2, 3:00 2018
Forum: Random
Topic: Have you ever pretended you don't know something?
Replies: 8
Views: 478

Re: Have you ever pretended you don't know something?

Over the years I've learned to subdue my brilliance because a lot of people completely miss the point of what I'm saying or they take it personally. As I get older I'm becoming like a wild animal that just wants to conserve energy whenever possible, which means meaningful engagements only. I've lear...
by Aum
Wed May 2, 2:56 2018
Forum: Random
Topic: silly destressers
Replies: 11
Views: 546

Re: silly destressers

I love going for long walks at night when most people are at home and in bed, blasting my ipod. I can walk huge distances. I'll stop in my favourite parks to stretch on the monkey bars and benches before moving on. I have a rich inner fantasy life so it's win-win when I can exercise my body while le...
by Aum
Wed May 2, 2:52 2018
Forum: Random
Topic: When does one become "a local"?
Replies: 12
Views: 642

Re: When does one become "a local"?

I have honestly never felt at home anywhere, so I'm not sure how to really answer. I'm assuming a local is someone who has spent a lot of time and energy getting to know a place, relating to its culture, and knowing a lot of its ins and outs fluently. But when I examine what I just said, it doesn't ...
by Aum
Thu Apr 26, 10:43 2018
Forum: Pregnancy & Parenting
Topic: Unplanned, polyamorous pregnancy situation
Replies: 8
Views: 1612

Re: Unplanned, polyamorous pregnancy situation

It sounds like you can't predictably rely on either of these men to bring another life into the world, and your 10 month boyfriend is too new to know either way. Wanting children "some day" is not exactly a ringing commitment. You need to get real here. You're potentially bringing a human being into...
by Aum
Thu Apr 26, 10:39 2018
Forum: Science & Technology
Topic: Brand new human organ identified - REALLY!!!
Replies: 6
Views: 798

Re: Brand new human organ identified - REALLY!!!

I think as modern medicine starts to gain a better understanding of holism in the body (vs. compartmentalism), they will begin to discover more organs like this. I have to admit though, I'm having a hard time understanding what this interstitutium is about. In Chinese medicine they have an organ cal...
by Aum
Fri Mar 30, 5:58 2018
Forum: Mixed Media
Topic: what's the last movie you saw?
Replies: 292
Views: 106596

Re: what's the last movie you saw?

Girlhood (Bande de Filles)

It was OK.
by Aum
Sat Mar 24, 18:27 2018
Forum: Random
Topic: How far are you from the ocean?
Replies: 13
Views: 683

Re: How far are you from the ocean?

I'm on a boat with internet.
by Aum
Sun Mar 18, 22:19 2018
Forum: Feminism
Topic: Equality VS Equity
Replies: 2
Views: 427

Re: Equality VS Equity

The two are related but they are talking about different things. Equality means everyone gets the same constitutional protections as well as the same human rights, without bias or prejudice. It does not mean that we're ignoring the factors that make things unfair for certain groups while giving ever...
by Aum
Sat Mar 3, 7:58 2018
Forum: Random
Topic: MGTOW: Enthusiastic Consent
Replies: 47
Views: 3112

Re: MGTOW: Enthusiastic Consent

I don't relate to this issue. In the gay world sex is openly discussed and agreed upon before it ever happens. Men even discuss limits on what can and can't happen, their likes and dislikes, etc. To me it would be kind of crazy to have sex without talking about sex beforehand. Well, we are talking ...
by Aum
Fri Mar 2, 13:40 2018
Forum: Random
Topic: MGTOW: Enthusiastic Consent
Replies: 47
Views: 3112

Re: MGTOW: Enthusiastic Consent

I don't relate to this issue. In the gay world sex is openly discussed and agreed upon before it ever happens. Men even discuss limits on what can and can't happen, their likes and dislikes, etc.

To me it would be kind of crazy to have sex without talking about sex beforehand.
by Aum
Mon Feb 26, 17:29 2018
Forum: Random
Topic: Do you believe in ghosts?
Replies: 17
Views: 1254

Re: Do you believe in ghosts?

I grew up in a haunted house. It's not even a belief, just a fact of life for my family.
by Aum
Mon Feb 26, 12:43 2018
Forum: Feminism
Topic: The female price of male pleasure
Replies: 69
Views: 5720

Re: The female price of male pleasure

I don't really see the point of comparing which sex has the best pleasure or the worst sexual experience at the expense of the other sex. Our whole society is woefully sexually repressed with a lot of internalized shame. It's not helping anyone to continue the shaming. A lot of people don't even kno...
by Aum
Sun Feb 18, 0:10 2018
Forum: Polls
Topic: Best Star Trek Character
Replies: 14
Views: 1963

Re: Best Star Trek Character

Her symbiont lived in 8 different hosts, so she had the memories of 8 different lifetimes... men and women, married, different professions. She was old and wise. Also I just loved her personality.
by Aum
Sat Feb 17, 12:34 2018
Forum: Polls
Topic: Best Star Trek Character
Replies: 14
Views: 1963

Re: Best Star Trek Character

Jadzia Dax