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lack of comitment

Post by cob » Sat Mar 1, 9:25 2003

okay, so there's this guy i know and he seemed very dedicated for a while, but lately there has been a huge lack of comitment. we were supposed to get together on saturday, but he decided to go snowboarding! thats the same excuse he used LAST weekend! i am so sick of this crap. it's like he thinks he's going to run off to colledge and never see me again! WTF!?!?




okay all you sickos. the guy is the drummer in my band. he has skipped out on two practices now, and i want to finish recording. that is rather hard without a drummer. he is going to colledge in the fall, and so i think that is why he is giving up on the band. i am pissed. how the heck am i sposta find a new drummer? there's only like four hundred kids in my school!

anyone want to join a punk band?

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Post by BCG » Sat Mar 1, 11:24 2003

I'd join your band... but I probably wouldn't be good for your image. ;)

Does sound like you need a new drummer, though. That sounds sort of harsh, but you can't have someone holding you back.
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Post by FernGully » Sat Mar 1, 12:29 2003

I'd just threaten to allow all his little secrets to casually slip out to lets say... his parents, maybe the girl he likes... maybe the minister/priest/rabbi...

He'll stick around..
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Post by zoe. » Sat Mar 1, 14:56 2003

my friend david is going through the same thing with his band. just get a new drummer. i'm sure you'd find someone. i might be able to do it, actually. i've got good rhythm, and i've played a little before... but i kinda live in florida.
i'm not all that cool. but i hope i will be someday.

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Post by StarsInUrEye » Sat Mar 1, 15:07 2003

i would just like to mention that most drummers are very hot.
thank you

p.s. oh, but of corse not hottter than you cobain :D
good luck on finding drummer. its not good to keep someone who is not as dedicated as you in the band. more problems will just accure later if you dont find a new one.
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Post by SBC » Sat Mar 1, 15:10 2003

sparkly- true...

cornboy-yeah, just get a new drummer
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Post by angry-amy » Sat Mar 1, 16:47 2003

a lot of bands dont stick together. especially bands in high school. just get a new drummer. that is all that i can really say. advertise in places other than your school so that you can widen your search.
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Post by athena1999 » Sat Mar 1, 19:11 2003

There's a really hot drummer who sits next to me in Spanish class. My school has a million bands, and we're having a fest devoted to all of them.
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Post by KingTZ » Sat Mar 1, 22:48 2003

Wait a minute cob, I don't quite understand the problem.

Your boyfriend is also your drummer?
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Post by krazykitten » Sun Mar 2, 11:47 2003

i'll be your drummer! um actually, im not that good yet, i just started this summer, there seems to be a very high demand for drummers lately, even in my school which has over 3000 kids in it....... hmmm....
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Post by cob » Sun Mar 2, 12:38 2003

zoe. wrote:my friend david is going through the same thing with his band. just get a new drummer. i'm sure you'd find someone. i might be able to do it, actually. i've got good rhythm, and i've played a little before... but i kinda live in florida.
yeah, that'd be a long drive every saturday...

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Post by Turc » Sun Mar 2, 12:45 2003

I went out with a few drummers whom I'm sure I could bribe into joining your band...
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Post by tanooki » Mon Mar 3, 6:36 2003

damn cornboy, i thought you were missing some guy when i first read your post, you sicko!!! :P

i would be your drummer i have to let you know i am not all that good at moving my legs and arms at different times so... dudda bum :P

hey what happened to booty? you could ask her to be your drummer :D you are missing a girl in your band
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Post by A.K.A. Z » Mon Mar 3, 13:08 2003

Bands break up a lot man, especially at ya'lls age. Nothing else to it really, you just keep it going to the best of your ability.
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Post by The Shrew » Mon Mar 3, 18:58 2003

Started a band in 7th grade. A.M.A.K.A.Z. Yea, lemme just tell ya how well that turned out. Just ask BCG and Zoe. They were part of it.

*laughs hysterically* I think it'd be fun to be in a band.
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Post by zoe. » Mon Mar 3, 19:10 2003

haha, zoe, BCG, you, and zoe's ex boyfriend! that was good while it lasted.. .which was like, a week.

me and my friends kole and rachel and mannaflo tried to get something going in 8th grade. even had some songs written. but that never went anywhere either.
i'm not all that cool. but i hope i will be someday.

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Post by A.K.A. Z » Tue Mar 4, 1:23 2003

Me and 2 friends formed a rap group, we used to throw parties and rap for everybody. It lasted about 3 months and then we realized we were white. :lol:
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Post by tanooki » Tue Mar 4, 7:03 2003

hey rappers can be white :P
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