This table attempts to estimate your probability of going into labor on different individual days based on your estimated due date. If you don't know your due date, or just want a handy daily page to tell you where you're at, use the pregnancy calendar.
It's based on the idea that the average pregnancy lasts 40 weeks with a standard deviation of about 10 days. This means you're more likely to go into labor on one of the days close to your due date. For instance, about half of all babies are born within a week of their date. Scroll to the bottom of this page if you want to know more about where I got these numbers.
The following dates are based on an estimated due date of September 25th, 2017.
| Date | Progress | Overall probability of spontaneous labor |
Current probability of spontaneous labor |
probability of a pregnant woman at this stage going into labor | |||||
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| On this date | By this date | On this date | By this date | On this date | Within 3 days | Within 5 days | Within 7 days | ||
| Monday August 21st, 2017 | 35W, 0D | 0.01% | 0.02% | -% | -% | -% | 0.1% | 0.1% | 0.2% |
| Tuesday August 22nd, 2017 | 35W, 1D | 0.01% | 0.03% | -% | -% | -% | 0.1% | 0.2% | 0.3% |
| Wednesday August 23rd, 2017 | 35W, 2D | 0.02% | 0.05% | -% | -% | -% | 0.1% | 0.2% | 0.4% |
| Thursday August 24th, 2017 | 35W, 3D | 0.02% | 0.07% | -% | -% | -% | 0.1% | 0.3% | 0.6% |
| Friday August 25th, 2017 | 35W, 4D | 0.03% | 0.1% | -% | -% | -% | 0.2% | 0.4% | 0.7% |
| Saturday August 26th, 2017 | 35W, 5D | 0.04% | 0.13% | -% | -% | -% | 0.2% | 0.5% | 0.9% |
| Sunday August 27th, 2017 | 35W, 6D | 0.06% | 0.19% | -% | -% | 0.1% | 0.3% | 0.6% | 1.2% |
| Monday August 28th, 2017 | 36W, 0D | 0.08% | 0.26% | -% | -% | 0.1% | 0.4% | 0.8% | 1.5% |
| Tuesday August 29th, 2017 | 36W, 1D | 0.1% | 0.35% | -% | -% | 0.1% | 0.5% | 1% | 1.9% |
| Wednesday August 30th, 2017 | 36W, 2D | 0.14% | 0.47% | -% | -% | 0.1% | 0.6% | 1.3% | 2.4% |
| Thursday August 31st, 2017 | 36W, 3D | 0.18% | 0.62% | -% | -% | 0.2% | 0.8% | 1.7% | 3% |
| Friday September 1st, 2017 | 36W, 4D | 0.22% | 0.82% | -% | -% | 0.2% | 1% | 2.1% | 3.7% |
| Saturday September 2nd, 2017 | 36W, 5D | 0.28% | 1.07% | -% | -% | 0.3% | 1.2% | 2.5% | 4.5% |
| Sunday September 3rd, 2017 | 36W, 6D | 0.35% | 1.39% | -% | -% | 0.4% | 1.5% | 3.1% | 5.4% |
| Monday September 4th, 2017 | 37W, 0D | 0.44% | 1.79% | -% | -% | 0.4% | 1.8% | 3.8% | 6.4% |
| Tuesday September 5th, 2017 | 37W, 1D | 0.54% | 2.28% | -% | -% | 0.6% | 2.2% | 4.5% | 7.6% |
| Wednesday September 6th, 2017 | 37W, 2D | 0.66% | 2.87% | -% | -% | 0.7% | 2.7% | 5.4% | 8.9% |
| Thursday September 7th, 2017 | 37W, 3D | 0.79% | 3.59% | -% | -% | 0.8% | 3.2% | 6.3% | 10.4% |
| Friday September 8th, 2017 | 37W, 4D | 0.94% | 4.46% | -% | -% | 1% | 3.8% | 7.4% | 11.9% |
| Saturday September 9th, 2017 | 37W, 5D | 1.11% | 5.48% | -% | -% | 1.2% | 4.4% | 8.6% | 13.7% |
| Sunday September 10th, 2017 | 37W, 6D | 1.3% | 6.68% | -% | -% | 1.4% | 5.2% | 9.8% | 15.5% |
| Monday September 11th, 2017 | 38W, 0D | 1.5% | 8.08% | -% | -% | 1.6% | 6% | 11.2% | 17.5% |
| Tuesday September 12th, 2017 | 38W, 1D | 1.71% | 9.68% | -% | -% | 1.9% | 6.9% | 12.7% | 19.7% |
| Wednesday September 13th, 2017 | 38W, 2D | 1.94% | 11.51% | -% | -% | 2.2% | 7.8% | 14.3% | 21.9% |
| Thursday September 14th, 2017 | 38W, 3D | 2.18% | 13.57% | -% | -% | 2.5% | 8.8% | 16% | 24.2% |
| Friday September 15th, 2017 | 38W, 4D | 2.42% | 15.87% | -% | -% | 2.9% | 9.9% | 17.8% | 26.6% |
| Saturday September 16th, 2017 | 38W, 5D | 2.66% | 18.41% | -% | -% | 3.3% | 11.1% | 19.7% | 29% |
| Sunday September 17th, 2017 | 38W, 6D | 2.9% | 21.19% | -% | -% | 3.7% | 12.3% | 21.6% | 31.5% |
| Monday September 18th, 2017 | 39W, 0D | 3.12% | 24.2% | -% | -% | 4.1% | 13.5% | 23.6% | 34% |
| Tuesday September 19th, 2017 | 39W, 1D | 3.33% | 27.43% | -% | -% | 4.6% | 14.9% | 25.6% | 36.6% |
| Wednesday September 20th, 2017 | 39W, 2D | 3.52% | 30.85% | -% | -% | 5.1% | 16.2% | 27.7% | 39.2% |
| Thursday September 21st, 2017 | 39W, 3D | 3.68% | 34.46% | -% | -% | 5.6% | 17.6% | 29.8% | 41.7% |
| Friday September 22nd, 2017 | 39W, 4D | 3.81% | 38.21% | -% | -% | 6.2% | 19.1% | 31.9% | 44.2% |
| Saturday September 23rd, 2017 | 39W, 5D | 3.91% | 42.07% | -% | -% | 6.7% | 20.6% | 34% | 46.7% |
| Sunday September 24th, 2017 | 39W, 6D | 3.97% | 46.02% | -% | -% | 7.4% | 22.1% | 36.2% | 49.2% |
| Monday September 25th, 2017 | 40W, 0D | 3.99% | 50% | -% | -% | 8% | 23.6% | 38.3% | 51.6% |
| Tuesday September 26th, 2017 | 40W, 1D | 3.97% | 53.98% | 7.9% | 8% | 8.6% | 25.1% | 40.4% | 54% |
| Wednesday September 27th, 2017 | 40W, 2D | 3.91% | 57.93% | 7.8% | 15.9% | 9.3% | 26.7% | 42.5% | 56.2% |
| Thursday September 28th, 2017 | 40W, 3D | 3.81% | 61.79% | 7.6% | 23.6% | 10% | 28.2% | 44.5% | 58.5% |
| Friday September 29th, 2017 | 40W, 4D | 3.68% | 65.54% | 7.4% | 31.1% | 10.7% | 29.8% | 46.6% | 60.6% |
| Saturday September 30th, 2017 | 40W, 5D | 3.52% | 69.15% | 7% | 38.3% | 11.4% | 31.3% | 48.6% | 62.7% |
| Sunday October 1st, 2017 | 40W, 6D | 3.33% | 72.57% | 6.7% | 45.1% | 12.1% | 32.9% | 50.5% | 64.7% |
| Monday October 2nd, 2017 | 41W, 0D | 3.12% | 75.8% | 6.2% | 51.6% | 12.9% | 34.4% | 52.4% | 66.6% |
| Tuesday October 3rd, 2017 | 41W, 1D | 2.9% | 78.81% | 5.8% | 57.6% | 13.7% | 36% | 54.3% | 68.5% |
| Wednesday October 4th, 2017 | 41W, 2D | 2.66% | 81.59% | 5.3% | 63.2% | 14.4% | 37.5% | 56.1% | 70.2% |
| Thursday October 5th, 2017 | 41W, 3D | 2.42% | 84.13% | 4.8% | 68.3% | 15.2% | 39% | 57.9% | 71.9% |
| Friday October 6th, 2017 | 41W, 4D | 2.18% | 86.43% | 4.4% | 72.9% | 16.1% | 40.5% | 59.6% | 73.5% |
| Saturday October 7th, 2017 | 41W, 5D | 1.94% | 88.49% | 3.9% | 77% | 16.9% | 42% | 61.3% | 75.1% |
| Sunday October 8th, 2017 | 41W, 6D | 1.71% | 90.32% | 3.4% | 80.6% | 17.7% | 43.4% | 62.9% | 76.4% |
| Monday October 9th, 2017 | 42W, 0D | 1.5% | 91.92% | 3% | 83.8% | 18.6% | 44.8% | 64.5% | 77.8% |
| Tuesday October 10th, 2017 | 42W, 1D | 1.3% | 93.32% | 2.6% | 86.6% | 19.5% | 46.3% | 65.9% | 79.2% |
| Wednesday October 11th, 2017 | 42W, 2D | 1.11% | 94.52% | 2.2% | 89% | 20.3% | 47.6% | 67.3% | 80.5% |
| Thursday October 12th, 2017 | 42W, 3D | 0.94% | 95.54% | 1.9% | 91.1% | 21.1% | 48.9% | 68.8% | 81.6% |
| Friday October 13th, 2017 | 42W, 4D | 0.79% | 96.41% | 1.6% | 92.8% | 22% | 50.1% | 70.2% | 82.7% |
| Saturday October 14th, 2017 | 42W, 5D | 0.66% | 97.13% | 1.3% | 94.3% | 23% | 51.6% | 71.4% | 83.6% |
| Sunday October 15th, 2017 | 42W, 6D | 0.54% | 97.72% | 1.1% | 95.4% | 23.7% | 53.1% | 72.8% | 84.6% |
| Monday October 16th, 2017 | 43W, 0D | 0.44% | 98.21% | 0.9% | 96.4% | 24.6% | 54.2% | 73.7% | 85.5% |
| Tuesday October 17th, 2017 | 43W, 1D | 0.35% | 98.61% | 0.7% | 97.2% | 25.2% | 55.4% | 74.8% | 86.3% |
| Wednesday October 18th, 2017 | 43W, 2D | 0.28% | 98.93% | 0.6% | 97.9% | 26.2% | 56.1% | 75.7% | 87.9% |
| Thursday October 19th, 2017 | 43W, 3D | 0.22% | 99.18% | 0.4% | 98.4% | 26.8% | 57.3% | 76.8% | -% |
| Friday October 20th, 2017 | 43W, 4D | 0.18% | 99.38% | 0.4% | 98.8% | 29% | 58.1% | 79% | -% |
| Saturday October 21st, 2017 | 43W, 5D | 0.14% | 99.53% | 0.3% | 99.1% | 29.8% | 59.6% | -% | -% |
| Sunday October 22nd, 2017 | 43W, 6D | 0.1% | 99.65% | 0.2% | 99.3% | 28.6% | 62.9% | -% | -% |
| Monday October 23rd, 2017 | 44W, 0D | 0.08% | 99.74% | 0.2% | 99.5% | 30.8% | -% | -% | -% |
| Tuesday October 24th, 2017 | 44W, 1D | 0.06% | 99.81% | 0.1% | 99.6% | 31.6% | -% | -% | -% |
| Wednesday October 25th, 2017 | 44W, 2D | 0.04% | 99.87% | 0.1% | 99.7% | 30.8% | -% | -% | -% |
All percentages are estimates based on mathematical averages and should not be taken terribly seriously... just because you only have 5% chance of going into labor two weeks early, that doesn't mean you should schedule a trip to the bahamas that weekend (see xkcd to get what I mean here).
You should (obviously) listen to your doctor or midwife on all matters related to pregnancy and childbirth. Just because this chart tells you that a 42W pregnant woman has a high chance of delivering in the next seven days, it doesn't mean it's healthy for her to be pregnant for seven more days. If your doctor wants to increase probability of delivery by inducing labor, there's probably a good reason.
Finding good distribution statistics on spontaneous labor is interesting. I have not found a study with an exact daily breakdown of when babies are born. However I have read way too much on this topic, so I can tell you that my favorite published research is The length of human pregnancy as calculated by ultrasonographic measurement of the fetal biparietal diameter (H. Kieler, O. Axelsson, S. Nilsson, U. Waldenströ) which a very nice table of 10 published studies, which found various means between 272-283 days. The study contributes their own results as well, analyzing nearly 2000 mothers who went into labor spontaneously, and there's graphs of what they found. They found a mean around 280 days, and standard deviations between 8-11 days. There's a big list of other studies and answers in the Introduction to my due date survey results.
Which leads to this topic... I am also in the process of collecting my own statistics. If you have had a baby, please take my due date survey. Oddly enough, the numbers I've collected so far support my messy hunch that pregnancy length has a 40-week mean and 9-10 day standard deviation. So go me.
Anyway if you have better research, drop me an e-mail (spacefem@spacefem.com).
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If a boy who has a penis asks if he's a boy and you don't just say yes, then that's straight up lunacy.
What he decides to do with that boyhood or how he dresses is up to him. But if you're born with a penis you're a boy.
Making it airy fairy when, statistically, scientifically, less than 1% of 1% of children born have true gender dysphoria, is immoral and wrong. It's also a sign of our troubled times.
This is just my anecdotal experience but...
I have experienced bullying based on simply engaging in normal children's play with girls. Insults were attacks on both me and the girls. But I NEVER questioned my gender as a male. So if a child asks me if he's a boy and was identified biologically as one, I am going to question what influences are on the child before I answer.
egg freezing seems like a good option esp if you have extra time and money.
- kid would like a sibling
- maybe people are right about end of life stuff
That's about it. I hated being pregnant, the last time I was pregnant the hormones were... really awful. Plus kid is now pretty big so another one would be weird and we gave away all our stuff.
I can still highly recommend this book: (
Also, keep speaking English! Toddlers forget fast when a language is no longer present.
Yay bilingualism!
Looking at Wikipedia, I know I've read one of the cited articles before and found it interesting (Martin, C. L. (1990). "Attitudes and Expectations about Children with Nontraditional and Traditional Gender Roles". Sex Roles. 22 (3-4): 151–66.) The gist is that understandings of gender begin to emerge by ages 2 or 3, and they continue to develop over the course of years, which includes some stigma (esp. for boys) when people step outside of understood roles. Then this article is more recent than that (2017), by the same author, and (based on my skim) seems to have pretty decent coverage in the articles it uses (
Somehow MIL has still given us a ton of pink clothing that she'll change him into everytime she comes over.
I hate pink.
I had an appointment with the obgyn today. He seems to think I'm even farther along than he originally thought. I didn't have an ultrasound. He just went by the size of my uterus. It's well over my belly button now. He's sending me to a high risk Dr. Asap and then I'm suppost to see him again on the 29th. By then he said they will have a better idea as to how far along I actually am. So far the pregnancy is going well. I did have complications with my first one and went to a specialist but this time I'm being referred to one because I'm old lol. They automatically send women when they are 35 and older.
I found this article (
The lit review at the beginning of the article adds some specificity here. What seems hard on kids is not single parenthood itself; it's often the divorce that results in a single parent being involved.
Then there are people who become single parents, but not by choice. That's also rough, often because these parents lack the financial stability and stability to do well. So the article is really looking at single parents by choice
Not having read your post, but just the heading, my response was "wine." But after reading your post, I thought "wine."
Yes. After bedtime.
Also, honestly the only way we made it through was we would take turns being the center of focus. We still do this, divide and conquer (and she's only one kid, hell). Also, I know people are like really limit screen time BUT if you really need to get something done one episode of e.g. Daniel Tiger or Paw Patrol or whatever isn't gonna be too bad. I think DarkOne has some good ideas too.
Good luck.
Also I know you can do wills and stuff on your own but honestly I found it super useful to talk through it with a lawyer who does that. She thought of things we never would have. (hm really should revisit now that kid is older) It was a one time fee and not that bad.
We do most of our banking through a credit union. Have been happy with them. We refinanced our mortgage through them when we did that. I remember the big credit union bust ages ago, but there are lots more protections in place now and big banks can be pretty awful.
Today for the first time my 11month old showed interest in a stuffed animal. Just before Christmas we received a box from Amazon with a giant bear inside. No gift wrap, no note. Just a bear the size of my child. It's been sat in his room and ignored completely, despite him exploring literally everything else that is in there. Then, out of the blue, he made a beeline for it and tried to pull its eyes out.